Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Fraternalism

In recalling my fraternity’s humble beginnings I think about the climate of the world in 1911. You have 3 undergrad friends who all attend Howard University together. First, I wonder why did they go to Howard and the truth is that in those days… not many black students were getting into higher education institutions such as The Ohio State University. With 2 of them being from D.C. it was also a natural trajectory to go Howard for those fortunate enough to attend college. Politically the world is beginning to recover from World War I which economically devastated the country and the world for that matter. Then I think about Jim Crow and the issues my founder’s had to deal with back in those days. They couldn’t eat everywhere they wanted to, drink from every water fountain, or use every bathroom. I think our generation forgets how hard life really was for black folks back then. We’ve came a long way but the truth of the matter is we need these organizations now just as much as we did back then. The fraternity was a way for them to be able to fellowship together and share a common bond with men of high ideals and like attainments. At first, they were even denied the permission to assemble as a fraternity with statements from the president of Howard like “why don’t you just join the fraternity already established on campus.” They had their reasons why they felt something else was needed. Not to supplement but to create an organization on the basis of friendship.

The relevance and growth of fraternities and sororities is directly correlated to the relevance and growth of people of the African Dispora is this great democracy we call the United States. When you want to know where the fraternities fit in society and where we’re going you have to analyze what black people are doing and where we’re going. Back in the days they called people who are a cut above the rest a member of DuBois’ “talented tenth.” This was a small percentage of folks who knew where they were going, understood the wisdom and character traits it took to get there, and is adamantly tried to lift up those who were not as fortunate. People like this are the reason our orgs carry such a great legacy. We’re talking about people like Dr. King (alpha), Carter G. Woodson (Omega), and Huey P. Newton (sigma). We are still doing great things in the community and continuing to shape young men and women to be the best contributors to society they can be.

On the PWI’s we are definitely still needed. When you go to a big ole white school like OSU it is so easy to see you are the minority whether it’s being the only black person in your class or the only black person on USG you will know you’re black (if you didn’t already) if you spend a week here as a student. Our orgs make our black community tighter, make a big school smaller, and make the struggles and challenges all worth it in the end. Our relevance is relevant and quite evident but now our biggest challenges lie within ourselves and our commitment to uphold tradition and uphold our people as a whole.

NPHC and Leadership...

I have been Greek for almost three years. I was one of those that was fortunate enough to be able to cross as a freshman. Basically, this means I've been da bruhz for over 90% of my collegiate career. Over this time I've had a lot of opportunities to take leadership roles and be a representative for Omega Psi Phi as well as the NPHC. The older I get in the frat the more wisdom I've gained. I think as a neo you are so on fire to do everything and sometime it gets overwhelming. Not to mention that you're still adjusting to a "new life" and are naturally drawn to the enticing aspects of greekdom. When I say that I'm talking about parties, road trips, greek picnics, conclaves, step shows, bbq's.... the list goes on! But when the lights fade and the long version of Atomic Dog is finally over you're left with a feeling... at first this feeling is empty yet nostalgic. It's like you can't wait to be able to show your skills and represent your letters in the fun way again. Truth be told, as I've gotten older my priorities have totally shifted. I used to be the one to party all night at the frat house and wake up late for community service and probably fall asleep if I even made it at all. Now I think I have grown to a point where I realize what I have... what is it? RESPONSIBILITY. With great knowledge and wisdom comes great responsibility. I realize that I'm never going to be just Amir to some people but I'm always gonna be Amir the Que or that kid that's a black greek to some of the tatoes on this campus. I know that all my actions are constantly being monitored and on top of that if I don't attempt to excel academically then none of it even matters. A hard pill to swallow when you have a quarter where you get kicked out of your E-board position on top of failing a class. That feeling is among the worst if you ask me. So with all this responsibility comes personal accountability. I know I have to police myself and be the best role model I can be for my younger chapter bruhz, to the campus, and the community. By doing this I naturally become a better leader, a better friend, brother, son, etc. My learning experience has been so thoroughly holistic that it's scary sometime that I apply what I've learn to every aspect of life. Bottom line... Leadership is not at all easy however it can be rewarding, fulfilling, and give you an intrinsic satisfaction like no other. I hope that as I grow, my leadership will grow as well and continue to resonate withing my everyday life.